There’s ‘a date’ and then there’s that unforgettable date that will be seared into your memory for the rest of your life. This is the date that is a night to remember. But those dates don’t just happen by accident. A romantic date that makes it a night to remember will have all the features necessary to capture your partner’s heart, body, and soul, and leave them beaming from ear to ear through the entire night.
If you’re wondering how you can give your love a night to remember, there’s certain romantic dating tips and tricks you need to follow. These tips will show you how to take your date from ‘great’ to ‘unforgettable’.
How to Act
It is important to act the right way during an unforgettable, overly romantic date, especially if you just met them and need to impress them.. After all, even if the date itself is perfect, if you’re with someone who isn’t showing their best self and having a great time, then the date will not flourish. You need to be on your A-game the entire night, and here’s some great ways to act right on a perfect date night:
Be Polite
I don’t care what anyone says, chivalry is NOT dead; and you need to show this to your lover. She wants to be pampered: the door needs to be opened for this lovely lady, you should talk to her as if she was the Queen of England (calling her miss and refrain from cursing), and give her your jacket when she is cold. These are just some of the tried and true ways to show your lady you are a true gentleman, and it’s sure to make her night special.
Be Yourself
People are always telling you to ‘be yourself’ no matter what; and in this circumstance, it holds true. You should always be yourself on the date, no matter if its a date to the park or an extravagant romantic excursion that will be pieced into her mind at all times.
While you should be polite and act like a gentleman, it doesn’t mean you should put on a show. If you’re trying too hard to be something that you’re not, she will be able to tell, and she will NOT have a good time.
She is on a date with you for a reason: because she likes YOU. Don’t act different just to make sure the night is perfect from start to end. She wants to spend time with you and be around your unique personality that made her fall for you in the first place, so don’t lose yourself in the process.
Make Her Laugh
Aside from food, the quickest way to a woman’s heart is to make her laugh. If you can keep her giggling throughout the night, you’ll be so much closer to landing dream date status. So pull out all of your best jokes, make silly remarks that you know she will enjoy, and flirt with her sweetly so she will giggle and pat your arm.
Smile Often
Could you imagine a date in which your partner didn’t smile! It would be a travesty, truly. You need to make sure you’re smiling throughout the night. A smile can change the course of anything, so if you’re not smiling on your date, it’s bound to fail. She will most likely think you are bored or don’t want to be there, which is the furthest thing from the truth.
What to Bring
Every woman wants to be picked up by her man in his car for an amazing date. But should you walk up to the door empty handed? Not if you’re trying to be romantic!
When you go to pick up your date, you should always have a little something special for her when she opens up the door. This is a great kick-start to making a night to remember. Some ideas you could use include the following:
- Flowers! Flowers are ALWAYS a big hit; they’re a classic! No woman is ever going to be upset when she sees a bouquet of flowers being handed to her, especially if you place one over her ear before the two of you frolick away on your night of romance.
- Candy. Pick her favorite candies. It doesn’t have to be a big heart shaped box of chocolates (unless she is into that sort of thing). You might be dating a gal who is obsessed with gummy, so make a big box full of gummy bears, worms, and spiders to surprise her with.
- Jewelry. I probably don’t need to say why this one is so popular; I mean come on, it’s jewelry, and everyone loves a brand new piece to flaunt. This is an especially great idea if you are taking her somewhere extra fancy where she needs all the bells and whistles to join her.
- Unique. Is she a gamer girl? Surprise her with the brand new game she’s been dying to play. Does she play a sport? Perhaps a new soccer ball and cleats would do the trick. Try to find something that is unique to her and surprise her with a gift you know she will love. This not only makes her happy that she got a special present from you, but it also shows that you pay attention to her and know her likes and dislikes enough to surprise her with that particular present.
- Love note. Go old school with your romance and write her something she will cherish for many years to come.
- Make something. You know what they say: there is nothing more special than something handmade; and this holds true when it comes to your significant other, too.To be extra romantic, make her something by hand that she can hold onto forever.
When the Date is Ending
So you’ve pulled out all the stops: you brought her something nice to the door when you picked her up, took her somewhere nice and acted like a fun gentleman the entire night, and now the date is coming to an end. How should you react to make it a night to remember?
- First and foremost you need to let her know what a wonderful time you had with her. Don’t leave her guessing, be brutally honest and tell her how beautiful she looked, how amazing the date was, and that you can’t wait to do it again.
- Secondly, you should never, EVER try and go for sex right off the bat. This is a very unromantic thing to do, especially if you’re new in the relationship. However, that’s not to say you can’t have sex. It probably should be avoided for as long as possible, but if the magic is right and you’re both more than ready to take the plunge, then go for it.
- Ending the night with a soft kiss is mandatory, especially if this is a first or second date. A soft kiss on the cheek, forehead, or the lips is a gentle way to show her that you care and have a keen interest in her. A date ending like this is something every woman dreams of, so make sure you pull it off perfectly.
- Always walk her to the door, always!
After the Date
Did you know that being romantic doesn’t just stop when the date is over? You want to continue showing her that you’re a romantic guy even after the date has ended and your back home. How can you accomplish this?
It’s easy: call her the second you get home. And yes, I said call. Don’t text her! Texting is fine in certain situations, but if you’re wooing a girl, she will love a phone call from her man. Give her a ring and reinforce that you had a magical time with her and can’t wait to see her again.
Romantic Date Night Ideas to Create a Night to Remember
Need help coming up with the perfect date night to create a night to remember? We have you covered. These are the top 9 most romantic date night ideas that pair perfectly with the romantic dating tips and tricks listed above.
- Romantic dinner. You probably figured this one was going to be on the list, right? But it’s not because it’s a classic and tried and true romantic date night idea. Romantic dinners are always great, but if you really want to go the extra mile and seal the deal on a romantic dinner, find a exquisitely fancy location that requires reservations for at LEAST a month in advance. This will wow her and show her how much time and effort you put into setting up this perfect night.
- Campfire. Want something simple, cheap, yet overwhelmingly romantic? Consider a campfire! The two of you will be able to snuggle up close while you sip on some hot cocoa, enjoy the warmth and allure of the fire, and kiss underneath the stars. It’s an easy to be over the top romantic without doing too much planning in advance.
- Dancing. Women love to dance with their partners! It is a great way to have a TON of fun and be close and comfortable with each other as you glide this way and that way across the dance floor. And don’t forget about those romantic close up dances that have the two of you engaged for a few minutes, listening to the melody and lyrics of some of the most beautiful artist of our time.
- Go to a Performance. And by this I mean, consider going to an opera or a ballet performance, or some other type of high-end event where you are required to look your best. This will give you the opportunity to look, dress, and act like a pure gentleman while your lady looks just as dashing. Not to mention it is tons of fun!
- Picnic on the beach. Sitting on the beach, enjoying wine, and listening to the waves crash against each other? It really doesn’t get any better than that. (Except of course the impeccable weather and sunshine splashing against your skin- that’s definitely a plus!)
- Couples massages. The two of you deserve to pamper yourself, don’t you? Of course! A love like yours has no bounds, and sometimes you just need to sit back, relax, and enjoy. With a couples massage the two of you will be so amazingly at peace you won’t want to leave each other’s sides. Follow up with more spa activities and make a whole day out of it!
- Art and Sip. This idea is becoming more and more popular in recent years, partly because it’s a blast, and partly because it allows you to release your inner creator while sipping on some delicious wines. It’s a fancy, super fun way to show your lover that you’re an artist (or maybe not), and you’re bound to have an amazing time.
- Rent a boat. There’s a lot of different ways you could take this idea, so feel free to spawn your own creativity! When renting a boat, it’s bound to be an enjoyable experience no matter where or what boat you get. But you can amplify this date night idea by introducing some food and beverages on the boat. A win win situation!
- Recreate your first date. This is ALWAYS going to be a winner, especially if you have been together for a long period of time. There is just something some magical about going back in time for a night remembering the first date the two of you ever went on. As a bonus, she will see that you didn’t forget the first date, and that shows her that you truly care about her and have cared about her since the very beginning. You can’t go wrong with that one, trust me.
Being romantic doesn’t’t have to be difficult. In fact, with these romantic dating tips it’s easy to turn yourself into the most romantic guy in town. Just remember to always pick her up with a special surprise, act like a gentleman and have fun all night, and end the night with a sweet kiss and a phone call. If you follow all of these steps, you can’t go wrong- especially if you use one of our unique date night ideas to make it a night to remember!
